I been around...

I kinda forgot that I had a blog that needed my attention, noone else can breatsfeed my baby now ain't that right. Imma just touch on a few things that have happened since the last time i wrote...

I turned 21
Now, i hate, hear me out on this please, I HATE *insert fist hanging mid air* people who think just coz I am 21 i am a child! I sometimes avoid speaking of my age or telling people my age coz they start under estimating my intelligence and psyche. In fact I know of someone that I didnt tell my age for a very long time and they assumed i was 25 or 26 (I do look 25) and when i did tell, they started treating me a lil differently and speaking oddly. UNCOMFORTABLE! Now I dont mind the fact that I look a lil older than i really am and i sound and act a lil older than i really am i actually love it. But dont come act awkward and start going coochie cooo when i tell u my age. Hence, i avoid age questions.

Procrastination
I have so much i need to do in life just in general. And i leave it and hope it will go away (normally doesnt work). It sucks that I have this thing in me. For example, I hate confronting someone that has wronged me, and there are times you need to these kind of things you know. I think a lot of people tend to take advantage coz i hate confrontations.
And my room, I have been planning to change the order of things since forever, but seems like i'd rather sleep than preetify my room. The diet (that never worked)....*sigh, sigh, sigh* I need to focus, my licence... bladi blah blah blah! I need help, someone...anyone....

Best Buddie's Wedding
30th of October, its here people. And I am a brides maid, (one very big one). The venue is beautiful. So intimate and cozy oh its beautiful. My dress is lovely and her dress is just so exquisite. Its gonna be awesome. I am just praying she stops stressing! I have never met anyone that stresses as much as D does, flippin hell. She should get an award! "for the highest stress level, passing with bright colours and tripple distinctions ladies and gentlemen, D!" *applause*
Dude u need to relax now, like really! Its gonna be fine.

And a whole of other things have happened. Dont even know what to place where. But this is a fresh page so my stories start now.

Lotsa lurvin
xxx

>>>>>>>>>Dear Faithful...

Dangggggg, dang, dainnng! Its been a minute. Anybody miss me?




Got lots of stories, will drop some tomorrow...
Im here to stay now :)

.................I'm not a soccer fan but what the hell

FEEL IT, IT IS HERE YA'LL!!!

I will be on the look out for weird things so that i can have loads of stories and pics to share. Enjoy the WC!

Wait a minute...

First of all whats up with Miley Cyrus. Lil good girl now turned bad. She was performing during "family time" on TV and she supposedly pretended to kiss a girl? Huh?? Our children (lol) had to see this on national TV during family time where shows like Britain's got Talent, Barney and so forth play. And how skimpy are the outfits she is wearing now? Little leather shorts, the highest studded heels, the most revealing outfits in town. Whats wrong with her? Soon we gonna hear she in rehab. I promise! Just watch. Mashura chaiwo.

Ok, now that's out of the way.

FIFA WC

The excitement is brewing like rapidly. Only a few hours left for kick off. People are wearing their South African soccer jerseys. My colleague has one written "Rude Boy" at the back (take it, take it, take it...). I shall be singing that song in his face till he turns purple. And people are bloody blowing their vuvuzelas everywhere! If I had one also I wouldn't be complaining, but I don't, so until I get one please take it easy on the vuvuzelas. Poor visitors. Their ears wont be the same when they go back to their countries. I wonder what their view on the vuvuzelas and the outrageous outfits will be. But one things is for sure, South Africans are very happy, hard hand shaking people (just for a moment try and look past the crime, the strikes and the xenophobia. I am swimming back home people.) They love to love other people, sometimes. Like for example, people that don't even know you can call you sweetie, lovie, darling, my baby and all that. And I don't mean lustfully, I mean just coz its sweet. If you not used to it you will probably think everyone is flirting with you.

Licence to drive

Not that easy to get in South Africa, if you are not South African ofcoz. Things just seem so hard to just do things normally here with out the officials trying to fish you out. Either its procedure or they just want your money.

Not a girl..but not yet a woman

So one of my close friends is dating a sixteen year old and he is, wait for it....26. No, is there something wrong with me or is this really a no no. Please tell me if i am over reacting. This is just so wrong in many ways. This is how the conversation went. Please note I copied this straight from my inbox:

Him - Remember that 16 year old i told you about? Well....

Me - No u didn't!!

Him - I tried to stop. But she didn't make it easy.
She seemed a whole lot more confident this time.
I guess she went home after our previous encounter and thought long and hard to herself.

Me - Oh my word! You are such a paedophile
I have no words for you!

I will leave it here coz the rest is unbelievable. You do the math for yourself, you will figure out what he "tried to stop". But if I am being unreasonable then drop me one and tell me where exactly I am being naive . I still don't think its good for him to do this, for her sake. But he thinks she is the one coz she is young, beautiful and inexperienced. And she is obviously head over heels coz she is 16. I have so much to say on this but let me shut my trap.

In Other News...

The Apple iphone 4 is out! It is BEAUTIFFFFFFFFFUL!!!
The Nokia N8 is its competitor coz its got a 12mega pixel camera and all that. But I'm more for looks, so I will stick to the ever so beautiful iphone 4. Lovely piece of art that.

On that note, have a lovely FIFA month. I'm not a soccer fan, but I loooove the players. ;)

Words of wisdom - There is no high like the Most High.

xxx

Random stuff

Life is a succession of moments. To live each one is to succeed...


Have a fun Friday

Check out these steps that different genders take at the bank to draw some money

MALE PROCEDURE:
1. Drive up to the cash machine.
2. Put down your car window....
3. Insert card into machine and enter PIN.
4. Enter amount of cash required and withdraw.
5. Retrieve card, cash and receipt.
6. Put window up.
7. Drive off.

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FEMALE PROCEDURE: What is really funny is that most of this part is the Truth!!!!

1. Drive up to cash machine.
2. Reverse and back up the required amount to align car window with the machine.
3. Set parking brake; put the window down.
4. Find handbag; remove all contents on to passenger seat to locate card.
5. Tell person on cell phone you will call them back and hang up.
6. Attempt to insert card into machine.
7. Open car door to allow easier access to machine due to its excessive distance from the car.
8. Insert card.
9. Re-insert card the right way.
10. Dig through handbag to find diary with your PIN written on the inside back page.
11. Enter PIN.
12. Press cancel and re-enter correct PIN.
13. Enter amount of cash required.
14. Check makeup in rear view mirror.
15. Retrieve cash and receipt.
16. Empty handbag again to locate wallet and place cash inside...
17. Write debit amount in check register and place receipt in back of checkbook.
18. Re-check makeup.
19. Drive forward 2 feet.
20. Reverse back to cash machine.
21. Retrieve card.
22. Re-empty hand bag, locate card holder, and place card into the slot provided!
23. Give dirty look to irate male driver waiting behind you.
24. Restart stalled engine and pull off.
25. Redial person on cell phone.
26. Drive for 2 to 3 kilometres.
27. Release parking brake.

Lovely weekend people

xxx ;-)

"Big" fun ...

I been around doin...

....a whole lotta stressing. Normal for a girl of less than 23 who has a whole lotta responsibilities. Like teenagers to take care of and to feed and school all out of my pocket and still pay the freakin rent. Arggggggghhhhhhhhh!

I wont talk about it. I don't want to. Buuuuuut on to more not so depressing things.

My lil sister passed her first term. Putting in mind that she hadn't been to school for a year coz of reasons beyond myself. I'm very proud of her flip. She is so intelligent, ofcoz she can only take after one person....me *grin*

I still haven't taken exercising seriously. I have a long way to go. I decided its up to me now to actually decide if the expansion is necessary. Is it necessary? No it isn't! But i am a food junkie and i don't see it as fair for me to be deprived of my daily cravings. Chocolate brownies...Choc-chip muffins...sadza nenyama (pap and meat), that's like the staple food at home. Staple as in daily we would eat sadza and we would eat rice and the salads pamaweekends, hehehe. Back to losing weight, I need inspiration. I need to be kept away from food. I want to lose weight but I am waiting for it to be a need. That's not cool though, coz then when its a matter of urgency... I don't know how that will turn out. Just keep me in your prayers.

I am finding myself, fashion wise. I like odd things. Maybe not so odd to the fashion maniacs (every girl should be a fashion maniac). Like i just found out I love stockings that are laddering...*silence* Is this normal? I think it is. I also like a formal and casual mix. Like you would wear your high waist knee length pencil skirt and your lady like cute shirt, then to give it a little edge you wear a pair of high top canvas sneakers (e.g. Levi's, Converse, Jack Purcell or whatever) then add accessories like a nice scarf and a huge bracelet and huge loop earrings. Ahhhhhh, loveit, loveit, loveit!!

I could go on and on about the fashion I am experimenting with. Just on the last note (on clothes), I am in love with African fabric clothes and stuff just like MBLS. I love love love what designers are doing with their African fabrics, its hot and very beautiful. I will post a few pics at the end of the post. I just love the way its modernized. Its so in! And i am on the road to owning a piece or two :) :)

Camp this year was amazing. I am blessed to have been there. I saw the lives of youth and adults being touched. I saw amazing growth and definitely God is at work. God is awesome and I just wanna thank Him for all He is in my life, He is "all" in my life. Glorrrrrrrrrrrrrrry! LOL.

On that note, take care and the words of wisdom for today....
"We can throw stones, complain about them, stumble on them, climb over them or build with them" - Unknown Author

And the pics I promised. Thanks to MBLS for her posts that introduced me to Sika. You rock chic!